But I love his sister like she’s my sister and he’s close to her as well. Things can get messy fast and it becomes really easy for relationships and friendships to get ruined.
She knows I like him and he likes me, but I don’t think she’s ever really thought about us getting together. Being with your bestie’s brother can be really awkward for everyone.
Well, now times are different and i know I am feeling him and I think he is feeling me too.
Also, note that if there is a snag, it might not be pretty. realize that their friendship is not a bargaining tool in any relationship that might occur between you and this guy. If my sister yanked him around a bend, I could probably deal with it, as long as he could, but it could be uncomfortable. There are a lot of answers here that are black and white as in "do it" or "don't do it." You might just try to do whatever the heck you choose, but to respect your brother at the same time.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Just make sure that when you decide to date the guy he understands that there are ground rules. just be totally open with your brother about the whole thing. Talking to your brother about it probably wouldn't help, since NO ONE can predict emotional futures that well. I would caution: A boyfriend could last a six months, a year, whatever. In that regard, there's a few of my ex-s I would not want to spend time with in the future.Dear Heather, Heather, I’m just going to come out and say it: I like my best friend’s brother. I’m going to warn you right now that dating your best friend’s brother is probably a bad idea.I’ve liked him for years and apparently he likes me too, and he has for a while. Sure, there are times when it works out, but in general, I’d advise against getting involved in this kind of situation.One such outing, he had me sneak out of her house in the middle of the night, and we made a road trip to a different city.And he went up this really long road, and at the top was such a beautiful view of the river. One thing led to another, and we made love in his car.
“I got so sucked into my best friend’s brother that I didn't even realize my friendship with her was starting to fade away.