This might be a good time to get one off ;)And as far as the first message goes just make it easy for her to talk to you.
Hey that description in your profile was really funny I am interested in such and such how do you do such and such.. Fishinin32 - pic 3 was recently added so it's not the main reason.
The genetically blessed get the highest rate of responses — no matter what they write.
If you're interested and messaging her, you must have some interest in her - what interests you about her (besides the superficial, of course). Yeah photos are a big part of it I really like your first 2 the the only one I would question is number 3.
So girls and guys must have drastically different experiences with online dating.
The girls post a profile and get bombarded with messages from guys, guys scan profiles and message the girls.
If you’re a risk taker you can compliment her hair which goes over amazing about 50% of the time…but has also been known to completely bomb. Eyes and smile (not mouth or lips) are okay and if you really feel compelled you can use words like beautiful or stunning (which I get all the time, and I guess it goes over well, at the very least it doesn’t work against). The truth is, girls are smarter than you’re giving us credit for. And even if we would’ve given you a chance, we likely won’t now since your lazy message tells us you think we aren’t worth it. The same thing goes for saying anything that demonstrates you didn’t do step 1 above.
So now that you know how to make it work, let’s have a look at a few things you’ll want to be weary of. For the love of god don’t say curvy, sexy, hot, tits, ass, hips, legs, or anything in this realm.
Make sure your spelling and grammar are perfect; sounding illiterate is a huge turnoff.